Mastering Your Marriage offers a unique approach that combines retreat and respite with new tools that help couples truly begin to thrive in their service marriages. Service marriages are unique, and no one knows that better than our military, veteran, and first responder couples. CKFF knows that if service marriages are going to truly succeed, they need marriage curriculum that is equally unique. To support this, CKFF is partnering with  the Baylor University Diana R. Garland School of Social Work to offer a program that empowers couples to create a new vision for their marriage and family.

All accommodations, meals, services, and materials are provided at no cost to participants.


MYM’s innovative approach will unfold in three distinct phases:

PHASE ONE: Orientation Retreat

Couples will join the CKFF Family and Baylor University at an orientation event that provides a retreat from the day-to-day intensity of service lifestyles.  At MYM Orientation, couples will lay a positive foundation by exploring the distinct challenges that are unique to a service marriage with MYM Coaches as well as other couples committed to thriving in a service environment.

PHASE TWO: Marriage Enrichment

Couples will continue to learn new skills through a monthly web-based curriculum that provides the opportunity to dive deep and learn more about thriving through service. This phase also includes ongoing contact with the CKFF and peer mentors, as well as some fun (and possibly sexy) date –night –out homework assignments.

PHASE THREE: Capstone Connection

A Capstone Event in the spring of 2019 provides couples with the opportunity to reconnect with the CKFF team, and the peer mentors as well as each other as they celebrate the new skills required to have a joyful, rich and abundant marriage.

CKFF and its partners believe that military, veteran, and first responder couples need marriage support that fits in with their busy lifestyle. The MYM curriculum will be delivered in an innovative way that is both flexible and convenient. We want couples to have every opportunity to begin to feel a sense of mastery and confidence in their marriage. MYM topics will include a combination of marriage skills that are research-based and address specific challenges military and first responder couples face. By investing in both the family and the community, MYM hopes to bring lasting, self-sustaining change to entire communities.  

Applications for the 2018 cohort are currently closed. Please check back for updates on when the next application period will open up. 

** MYM is not currently recommended for couples who are dealing with domestic violence, substance abuse requiring inpatient services, or active suicidal behaviors or other severe concerns. If you believe that your marriage is in crisis and need more immediate help, please contact a local professional or for emergencies call 911.


A special thank you to The Moody Foundation whose grant for seed funding
that helped to start the planning process for this important work.

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